We are born, we live, have relationships, friends, family, a spouse and children, become grandparents, and eventually we die. It’s in between all of this that we learn from others and pass the torch on to the next generation. Welcome to what we call the “circle of life”!
The “circle of life” is deeply embedded into the human psyche. If we have children we generally take great comfort in the fact that our gene pool lives on even though we pass away. When Jacob, alias Israel first embraced his son Joseph whom he had pictured dead for decades, he was ready to pass on that torch and die (Genesis 46:30):
“Israel said to Joseph, “Now I am ready to die, since I have seen for myself that you are still alive.”
People with no children will try to leave a different kind of legacy. If we are honest, we just hate the notion that we will cease to exist at some point. It’s just something that rubs us the wrong way and feels unnatural to us, a good indicator that it didn’t used to be that way.
If we go back to the beginning, we find that creation was set up without corruption, without the aging process, and without death. So, originally, we’re not made to age. Aging set in when death entered creation, and death entered creation after the first couple decided to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, even though God advised Adam and Eve not to touch it (Genesis 2:17):
“But you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.”
We are the first couple’s progeny and as such, death is in our gene pool, which means that we are programmed to age and pass away. Here is the good news though: God has been faithful. He has helped human beings throughout their lifespan offering a home for the human soul after their physical departure from this earth.
God has been graciously dealing with a problem that He did not create: death. God never wanted us to die. Not only did we get ourselves into deep trouble but we also dragged all of creation into it: Clothed in animal skins, the first to die in God’s new creation were animals. The first human being to experience death was Abel, murdered by his brother Cain, both events setting the stage of mankind’s violent tendencies.
What an amazing God we have coming through for us with an action plan to save us – if we let Him. Two things won’t change: God’s love for us, and the fact that we can make our own choices. We are free to take it or leave it. As far as God is concerned: He is for us. As far as we are concerned: we need to make up our minds. God wants to take care of us. Do we take His hand?
“You’re still young, that’s your fault
There’s so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down
If you want you can marry
Look at me, I am old, but I’m happy
All the times that I’ve cried
Keeping all the things I knew inside
It’s hard, but it’s harder to ignore it
If they were right I’d agree
But it’s them they know, not me
Now there’s a way
And I know that I have to go away
I know I have to go”
Song lyrics “Father and Son” by Yusuf Islam, formerly known as Cat Stevens. Since 1998 he operates a small hotel in London oriented towards Islamic travelers.)