We break ground to build something new. Everybody is familiar with the concept of change, which requires saying goodbye to one thing to make room for another. Always easier said than done, isn’t it? Especially when we’re not ready to let go!
Goodbyes may hurt, but life is impossible to live without changes. If we cannot leave when it’s time to go then we cannot change anything, and who wants to be stuck eternally in yesteryear? Suppose we held on to the earliest version of ourselves (which is next to impossible), this would not only be counterproductive, but also very unhealthy, not to mention deadly as we would be giving up on living.
We once had a young pet, our little cat Malinka, who got involved in an accident, which left her with just a few more hours to live. Malinka died during the night before we could see our veterinarian. Animals know when it’s time to go. Malinka crawled into our bedroom corner and didn’t want anybody near. Staying in that same corner without ever changing position she breathed her last at around 3 o’clock in the morning.
I don’t know about you, but I’m extremely anxious when I feel cornered or stuck, and I know the minute I give up and resign myself to this imaginary corner I’m really on death row; I need to keep fighting to still have a fighting chance!
When we feel that our life has been turned upside down and we cannot make heads or tails of anything, we have to remember that soil is also turned upside down – and why? To make room for the new seed! As we’re going through disaster it’s all a puzzle to us, but brokenness is no reason to give up. Brokenness is a reason to look up, and to do so with genuine hope.
Among the 66 books of the Bible, the book of Psalms has always stood out to me. Similar to a cry room in a public building, where people take their babies or small children for privacy reasons, that’s how God’s children take their worries and cares into their personal prayer closet. As people pray and pour out their hearts to the Lord, the entire range of human emotions is on display. Venting to the Lord is the best therapy when it comes to brokenness and pain. God has always been very close to the brokenhearted. As a matter of fact, He’s closest when we’re at our lowest. He is right there with us when we need Him most, whether we can feel His presence or not (Psalm 34:18):
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Instead of trying to piece it all together on our own, let’s protect our sanity by letting God catch our broken pieces. We’re safe in His hands. Let Him heal our wounds, work with us through our pain, and help us in our distress. He can heal us, and help us to forgive and let go. Broken in God’s hands, He can mend us so we can rise again and embrace a new tomorrow.
Alone in the crowd
Just acting out
Can’t see the light in the night
Don’t understand the events of the day
But there’s the hand of the living God
Holding me in the midst of it all”
(Basically Two, Bill & Evelyn Snyder)