Listening to someone may change your perspective. You might learn something entirely new!
A brief encounter of the show “Big Bang Theory” comes to mind. “What’s the gist, physicist?” Jokingly responding to a forceful knocking, Penny opens her door to listen to the answer, only to slam the door shut in the face of said physicist a brief moment later. Somebody asks a question but doesn’t really care for the answer.
Have you ever encountered a person who asks the same question in ten different ways just to get the answer that he or she desires to hear? That’s not listening for an answer, that’s suggesting one.
Preconceived notions can get in our way. Depending on how big those preconceived notions are, we need a hearing aid of sorts. The audio from other people is slightly altered because we filter the information to our liking. It’s hard to be impartial that way.
When we’re born, the first thing we do is cry. Hearing that first cry, the mother is happy that her baby is alive and healthy. Crying out comes natural to us. We all want to be heard. Listening on the other hand, not so much! Listening takes skill and expertise. We have to get out of our own way to do so. If we don’t, we’re just big babies, so-to-speak. Part of growing up is to actually become curious in what other people have to say. The more we take in, the more intricately we’re shaped, and all the more well-rounded our world view becomes.
When God addresses us personally and we get quiet enough to listen (which we’ve practiced before by learning how to impartially listen to the people around us), this has a tremendous effect on our psyche. Why? I’ve always wondered. I believe in part it has to do with the fact that God Himself is a great listener. He listens to our heart all day long. So, when He addresses us in person, the Word He has for us is something we need to hear. It will help us grow and move on. It will help us work through issues. Not to mention solace! Brokenhearted, His Word soothes our soul.
Well-received, God’s input will initiate growth, healing, and will change our outlook on things. In other words, God’s input, while invisible, visibly shapes us. We act upon it. It’s fuel in our tanks. It builds our life, our relationships.
Listening requires breaks. The United States is internationally famous for her short vacation time – which I think is really detrimental to human productivity. Appropriate breaks help us stay grounded. It’s insane to fly blind, and it’s unhealthy to live on autopilot. If day to day stuff and stressful situations engulf us and we haven’t had much time to take a break, let’s take the time! To the benefit of our heart and soul, breathe! Let the noise filter out of our heads so we become blissfully aware what our best Friend has to say to us.
God is for you, not against you, and He is the best Friend you’ll ever have. Lend Him your ear – you’ll never regret it!