If life had a name, then I’m sure its middle name would be Trouble with a capital T. First and last name? Constant Change! And we can get overwhelmed; we can get stuck; we can get overly attached; we can get numb; we can get depressed; we can get sweetened or hardened dealing with whatever life throws at us. Note that our hearts are fragile. We need to take good care of our hearts, or else we’ll be overcome by life’s middle name.
How we handle trouble is similar to digestion. Food is worthless and can actually kill us if our bowels refuse to work and our whole digestive system shuts down. Food has to be processed to be of any value. So does life. We need to take time to process life’s events, especially life changing events.
Allow yourself a break when lots of things happen, when we arrive at a crossroad; when changes come our way, when we feel pushed in a corner, when we feel powerless, when we feel angry, especially when we feel defeated and don’t see a way out of a situation. All of that are sure indicators that we need a Time Out.
Jesus spoke words of life into everybody’s struggle when He said:
- “Take heart!”
We need to take our hearts seriously. The best favor we can do to ourselves is to reconnect with our Creator.
- “I have overcome the world”.
Knowing and believing that Jesus can work through every issue with us will guard our hearts from descending into desperation. Jesus added:
- “I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace.”
The most precious ointment on a wounded and broken heart is the ointment of peace: the peace of knowing everything is going to be alright; the peace of knowing that God cares; the peace of knowing we are not alone; the peace of realizing that God is near; the peace of knowing we are being carried.
In all troubling matters, we need to cut through the chase and go to the source of the problem to gain clarity. In matters of peace we too find a source. Jesus can connect us to peace because He is the source of peace. Before His death He told His followers (John 14:27):
“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
“Peace be with you” is not an empty wish of His. It is quite real. And Jesus wants to lay it on us. He makes us an offer that we can refuse, but we are infinitely better off accepting the precious peace He has for us. Take it from the One who knows you best, and let His peace reign in your heart and soul.