First things first; secondary things second – which is secondary here? Matthew is referring to bills to be paid and food on the table, things of that nature usually claiming our prime attention. We all need a roof over our heads, clothes to wear and food on the table. Once our basic needs are covered we turn our attention to something else, or so we think. How much food is enough? What type of roof will do? And which clothes fit us well? Before we know it, all we do is taking care of our basic needs.
God’s approach to turn things around and let His Kingdom stuff be first and our basic needs second makes more sense if we think about it this way: Let Him take care of our basic needs so we can focus on the more interesting stuff: people; this world around us; our friendship with God.
Don’t get me wrong. It’s sometimes hard not to worry. Bills are like unwanted relatives, they stick to our shoes like gum. It’s that element of trust, however, that makes all the difference. And in an awesome way, trusting God sets us free. We are not just stuck paying bills. We can actually venture out and do something meaningful.
By the way, the lifestyle of worrying does not add a single hour to our lives. If anything, worrying most likely shortens our lifespan. Worrying is unproductive, self-centered and makes us sick; trusting the Lord on the other hand frees us up to live productive lives that touch other people.
After some debate, my husband and I decided to relinquish one of us from bringing home a regular paycheck. Effective October 1, 2018, I became self-employed. With 50% of our income gone it was a huge step of faith for both of us. Meanwhile, I’ve created a client base for music entertainment, specifically Memory Care facilities. To boost their memory, I’ve been singing old familiar songs to the patients. One of them is “Don’t worry, be happy” by Robert Jr. McFerrin.
“Ain’t got no place to lay your head
Somebody came and took your bed
Don’t worry, be happy”
It seems, the only thing left to worry about in the last stages of our lives is to have a bed to sleep in. If the bed is taken away, what else is left? Well, here is the thing: We can hold on to worrying until we take our last breath, or we can let go and let God. The choice is entirely ours.